When you can't think of anything else to say,
don't say anything. Instead, just listen. #QuoteADay #Day209 #edchat #edu
I have a problem
(well, a few, actually).
But here’s one: I talk a lot, and I like to talk. At times, I can talk too much.
This year, I’ve made it my business to spend more time
monitoring my own airtime, and doing what I can to make sure others monitor
their own as well.
This hasn’t been particularly easy for me, but I’ve seen the
positives of this already.
For one, simply by monitoring my own airtime, I’m spending
more time listening to others which has helped me become a better leader and
learner in general. In addition, I’ve
been able to strengthen my listening skills and become a more effective
participant in conversations (yes, simply by remembering to keep my mouth shut J).
A second benefit has been that I actually have realized that
sometimes you can say just as much by saying nothing at all. This has been humbling for me, as it has made
me wonder if all my talking in the past has really been necessary, or if I
could have saved thousands of words and still got the same point across. In many cases, I think so.
I’m going to end the post here, simply to monitor my
airtime. I hope that for those of you
who are like me, and love to talk (and sometimes, like me, hear yourself talk),
you’ll consider the power of reducing your voice (and your word count). It’s been wonderful for me.
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